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on July 12, 2026

We moved from the US to a Greek island. Here are 5 pros and cons of raising a kid abroad.

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Cara West and her family moved to Europe for a better quality of life.
Photo Courtesy of Cara West

After Cara West became a mother in 2022, she began rethinking the kind of life she wanted for her family. She grew increasingly concerned about the cost of living in the US, the lack of community she felt in Houston, and the quality of education her child might receive.

"I considered the possibility of moving abroad to live more affordably and comfortably," West, 35, told Business Insider. "I didn't want my child to attend a traditional public school in the US, and I wanted to teach her through travel and real-life experiences."

The following year, West and her family tested out living in Lisbon for a few months. In Portugal, they found a lower cost of living and a quality of life that better aligned with how West and her husband wanted to raise their daughter.

"After two weeks in Portugal, we knew we'd made the right decision and were ready for bigger changes," she said.

In 2024, the family made their move to Europe permanent, choosing Syros, Greece — a small Cycladic island west of Mykonos — as their new home. West is a travel blogger, while her husband is a stay-at-home dad. This month, they signed a lease on a new house and renewed their visas, while their 4-year-old daughter prepares to start kindergarten.

West shared with Business Insider what she sees as the biggest pros and cons of moving across the world and raising a child abroad, from learning a new language to living far from friends and family.

Balancing an old and new language is a delicate dance

Adult in bright floral dress holds a child in a sunny garden with flowers and a canvas tent. — West and her daughter in a garden.
Courtesy of Cara Celeste West

West and her husband want their daughter to grow up feeling connected to Greek culture rather than like "an outsider," and they see learning the language as an important part of that.

They've been helping her develop her Greek skills by encouraging her to speak with locals, watch Greek shows, and read Greek books.

"At first, she saw it as a negative thing that she was learning Greek," West said. "Now, she's a lot more receptive and gets really excited every time she makes a local friend who speaks Greek."

This year, her daughter will start at a private school where teachers will primarily speak Greek, though they will translate for English-speaking students.

"I worry that as she gets settled into school, speaking Greek will be really difficult for her, but at the same time, I'm grateful that we're starting it at such a young age because I do think that she'll adapt way faster," West said.

As her daughter learns Greek, West said she'll also be keeping an eye on her English skills. It's a concern many other English-speaking moms on the island share.

"It's so interesting because we've been really focused on our kids feeling comfortable and confident speaking Greek, but now we're like, 'Maybe they're forgetting English,'" she said.

I'm raising a worldly, open-minded child

Cara West and her daughter — West and her daughter in France.
Courtesy of Cara West

One reason the family decided to relocate to Europe was the ease of traveling to other countries. This month alone, they visited Lisbon, Venice, and Paris.

"She's only four, and we just got done visiting her 20th country," West said. "She's being exposed to customs, cultures, foods, and experiences before she even reads about them in a textbook."

From hearing the Call to Prayer in Turkey to seeing the northern lights in Iceland, West's young daughter has already experienced more of the world than many people do in a lifetime.

West said these experiences have helped her daughter understand early on that people live, eat, worship, and move through the world in different ways.

"It's always the things that you don't think are going to stick with her," she added. "I love that she is seeing so many different ways of doing things."

It's difficult being far away from family

An adult carries a bundled child on a path below Skógafoss waterfall in a grassy canyon. — West's husband and daughter in Iceland.
Courtesy of Celeste Cara West

For West, living abroad also means raising her daughter far from family. It's a major concern for her, especially because her daughter is an only child.

"I worry sometimes that she is missing out on things happening back in the states with my husband's and my family, and that she may not be as close to certain family members like her cousins back home," she said.

To help maintain those bonds and keep up with milestones in everyone's lives, West makes sure they regularly FaceTime with family.

"We just make sure that's a regular cadence for her, so she doesn't feel that disconnect when she sees them in person," she said. "And we also try at least once a year to get back to the States as well."

We feel safer in Europe

Cara Celeste and her husband in Santorini, Greece. — The family in Santorini, Greece.
Courtesy of Cara Celeste

West's daughter was about 3 months old in 2022 when the Uvalde school shooting happened. At the time, West and her husband were living in Houston, roughly four hours away. The tragedy pushed her to think more seriously about where her daughter would go to school — and how safe she would be.

"That, honestly, for me, was the biggest catalyst," West said. " I was like, okay, we really do need to look into what it would be like to live abroad, especially somewhere where gun laws are much more restrictive."

Greece has very strict gun laws, with firearm possession generally prohibited unless a permit is issued by authorities. In Syros, West said, life on the island feels "incredibly safe."

We moved from the US to a Greek island. Here are 5 pros and cons of raising a kid abroad.

Balancing an old and new language is a delicate dance

I'm raising a worldly, open-minded child

It's difficult being far away from family

We feel safer in Europe

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